Duality Mindset and Mastering its Harmony

I touched on the idea of understanding the world works in the shades of greys and not to use a strict this or that mindset towards things. Like all of these simple yet profound ideas you don’t just magically come to this understanding. That is why describing these concepts and ideas with words is difficult and there is a lot of room for misunderstanding. They are experienced, through this we understand a tangible truth that can be extremely hard to describe because it eludes our language’s vocabulary AND because experience is subjective.
I am going to take a stab in the dark to try give you bite size tastes of the experience with words. I can only hope for the best for it to resonate with someone LOL.

Just because I claim something to be true about myself does not automatically mean nothing else can also be true

Just because something is stated, does not automatically mean this thing is confined to this statement and if the other qualities aren’t explicitly stated, they do not exist.

This would be like telling everyone "the water in this glass is in a liquid state"
and someone listening yelled "what about the water in my glass, its in a liquid state?!? By stating your water is in a liquid state, no other combination of 2 hydrogen's and an oxygen can exist in a liquid state.
sounds like madness right?

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In other words, this appearance is present, so we automatically deduce it is because of this set of behaviors.

In other words, this is the outcome I see, so I automatically deduce that this is how it happened.
while sometimes you might be able to get a general idea with this example, what I'm trying to drive home is that you don't know for certain. there is a difference between knowing the

approximation measurement -can give you an idea to start, but no actions should be taken with this information
and the exact measurement - needed in order to execute actionables.
If someone gives you an approximation, do not go and use it as a foundation to form another thought. just use it to help paint a picture.
Its like focusing on the movements of the paint brush and criticizing and telling the artist what they are painting before they are done

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No one really covers the cons of being a master, but we love to point out the cons of being a beginner everything has pros and cons, and i mean everything.
From my observation i have found the con of mastery to be a hyper critical mind. because you understand the nuances and look at like many parts to a large moving machine.
Whereas the beginner tends to see it as a whole producing an outcome.
Both perspectives are important, but one does not view themselves as 'better than the other'

This is how you nourish your soul. understanding with a loving embrace both the good and the bad, for one cannot exist without the other.

Learning to accept and love, as is.

This brings up a lot for me when trying to apply to myself....ya know that wonderful Inner critic, the anxiety voice , the part of me that can quite literally drive me crazy; learning to understand its place and purpose in your life, and loving it for doing what it does supposed to so well :P
 

This is how you nourish your soul. understanding with a loving embrace both the good and the bad. for one cannot exist without the other

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<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<    Even if its just the first 20 mins of this interview/convo is a great adaption :)